Few things bother me, but as an individual offering advice of this particular nature, it irks me when people settle for a relationship for the sole purpose of being in one. This furthermore segues into the inevitable and more importantly premature "I Love You." Spare me, and who is infinitely more important, her. Until you meet a woman that treats and cares for you like your Mother does, and vice versa, there is a limited chance she loves you or you love her.
The point here gentleman is to WAIT. Stop catching minnows here and there. Let your line settle and reel in the big fish when she's opportune. Nonetheless, settling for a mate will overlap into other aspects of your life, in which you may settle for something less than what you're capable of achieving or deserving of.
You want the right kind of experience in earlier relationships in life so that when a long-term one comes along, YOU'RE READY -- A metaphor may be helpful:
Are you going to work jobs and internships irrelevant to your aspiring field of occupation? No. You're going to work similar jobs so that when the long-term offer comes along, your experience is useful, applicable, and relevant. The nature of relationships are very alike in this manner.
Think about it,
Doc
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