Monday, March 14, 2011

Ego vs. Efficiency

Conflict is inevitable among individuals in a relationship or during the strenuous stages of attempting one.  Naturally, as the dominating counterpart in this duo, you may often feel compelled to constantly keep the ball in your court, for whatever reason.  Do so, but only in a way that won't overwhelm her.  


It's very difficult sometimes to bite your tongue and agree with her logic, or lack thereof.  In the end, your relentlessness will have been pointless.  You'll have a headache and a bigger problem -- We all know how woman like to blow miniscule bumps into out-of-proportion mountains.


Save yourself the issue.  Rely on your good conscious often during times like these.  Getting the last word in and giving her that last stab to try and get your point across has gone through one ear, torn through your weekend sexual agenda, and out the other.


Not only will taping your ego's mouth closed make your time together more peaceful, but it will teach you a thing or two about yourself and how you can apply these little tricks to other aspects of your relationship(s).


Be well,
Doc

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