:: APPROACH WITH CAUTION ::
You have no idea what a particular woman finds attractive in a particular situation, so plain and simple: Don't Be Stupid! No matter who you are or who you think you are, approach a woman at first calmly and curiously. Follow her non-verbal cues; watch her eyes and her body language. These vibes will provide you with useful ammunition when the verbal encounter occurs.
Some women like ass holes, some gentleman, some both. If you are at a bar (probably the worst place to meet a girl), do not immediately offer to buy her drink. Why? Because that's what every guy does and if you're trying to make her think "Wow this Johnny Bar-tab might be different than the rest," you need to neglect the norm.
You must act both mysterious and welcoming simultaneously. You don't want to bore her with your life story and at the same time you don't want to fully ignore an interesting conversation by trying to be overly suave and cocky.
Find the happy medium that fits your personality and your direction. Don't be upset if you're rejected or turned down. Maybe there is no common ground or chemistry. It's okay, there are plenty of fish in the sea or in your particular case: sluts in the bar; sorostitutes at the frat house; MILFs on the beach.
You must look at all situations positively and know that what you have to offer can and will be found interesting by many available women.
Make an impression, but make it a good one.
Good luck!
Doc
Friday, February 25, 2011
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Follow Your Influences
Johnny Depp in Blow? James Bond in Goldeneye? Brad Pitt in Fight Club? George Clooney in Ocean's 11?
Every one of us have had the glorified 'wannabe' moment watching certain films. Seeing every chick on the beach turn her head to George Jung ... watching Danny Ocean womanize with an unmistakable swagger while pulling off a merely impossible theft (top 5 movies of all time).
We all sometimes wish we had the wit or the game to pull off certain stunts with woman. Albert Einstein was not only a genius in mathematics and sciences; he astutely offered incredible words of wisdom -- "The secret to creativity is knowing how to hide your sources." Write that down, and this is why ...
Whether you're looking for casual sex or a relationship, its OKAY to follow your influences. And by follow your influences, pulling and using lines from movies falls under that category. I've executed this successfully on numerous occasions in a one-on-one female encounter. Just make sure you put your own twist on it. Getting called out for this is a recipe for immediate denial in any circumstance.
Go out and try it. Success or failure, I want to hear your stories!
All the best,
Doc
... Further useful research: Hitch starring Will Smith
Every one of us have had the glorified 'wannabe' moment watching certain films. Seeing every chick on the beach turn her head to George Jung ... watching Danny Ocean womanize with an unmistakable swagger while pulling off a merely impossible theft (top 5 movies of all time).
We all sometimes wish we had the wit or the game to pull off certain stunts with woman. Albert Einstein was not only a genius in mathematics and sciences; he astutely offered incredible words of wisdom -- "The secret to creativity is knowing how to hide your sources." Write that down, and this is why ...
Whether you're looking for casual sex or a relationship, its OKAY to follow your influences. And by follow your influences, pulling and using lines from movies falls under that category. I've executed this successfully on numerous occasions in a one-on-one female encounter. Just make sure you put your own twist on it. Getting called out for this is a recipe for immediate denial in any circumstance.
Go out and try it. Success or failure, I want to hear your stories!
All the best,
Doc
... Further useful research: Hitch starring Will Smith
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Welcome!
Good Evening My Fellow Men,
Let me begin by clearly stating that my intentions here are not to demean women and further prove why the male species reign supreme ;) Male narcissism is of no interest to me. I am here to supply you with useful insight and a gold plated key that unlocks the brain, the heart, and the inevitable and eventual low-cut denims of the sacred and holy: female.
I won't bore you with a personal background of what qualifies me to support such information. I will let my posts speak for themselves.
Beware that you will read information all over the female spectrum. This is not just to get you laid, although for many of you it will. My overall goal is to help you further understand what women really want in a man and what they expect out of us, without necessarily compromising your ego and general stature.
Whether you are a frat star, lax douche, book worm, fly on the wall, or gentleman, you have at one point or another botched bringing home that dime piece from the bar -- or couldn't clearly and effectively confess your unspoken love to your best girl friend of 10 years. Failure in these situations can range from such simple mistakes like bad breath or poor eye contact to some larger, deep-rooted personal issues like a little thing I like to call excessive asshole-ism. You must take into consideration that not all women think the same. Therefore, there isn't one algorithm to pop the lid of understanding them.
No man closes 100% of the time, but like Brian Fantana's Sex Panther cologne, 60% of the time, my advise works every time. (If you are confused by that reference, please gently remove your tampon and log off my blog)
Cheers to our growing relationship,
Doc
Let me begin by clearly stating that my intentions here are not to demean women and further prove why the male species reign supreme ;) Male narcissism is of no interest to me. I am here to supply you with useful insight and a gold plated key that unlocks the brain, the heart, and the inevitable and eventual low-cut denims of the sacred and holy: female.
I won't bore you with a personal background of what qualifies me to support such information. I will let my posts speak for themselves.
Beware that you will read information all over the female spectrum. This is not just to get you laid, although for many of you it will. My overall goal is to help you further understand what women really want in a man and what they expect out of us, without necessarily compromising your ego and general stature.
Whether you are a frat star, lax douche, book worm, fly on the wall, or gentleman, you have at one point or another botched bringing home that dime piece from the bar -- or couldn't clearly and effectively confess your unspoken love to your best girl friend of 10 years. Failure in these situations can range from such simple mistakes like bad breath or poor eye contact to some larger, deep-rooted personal issues like a little thing I like to call excessive asshole-ism. You must take into consideration that not all women think the same. Therefore, there isn't one algorithm to pop the lid of understanding them.
No man closes 100% of the time, but like Brian Fantana's Sex Panther cologne, 60% of the time, my advise works every time. (If you are confused by that reference, please gently remove your tampon and log off my blog)
Cheers to our growing relationship,
Doc
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