:: APPROACH WITH CAUTION ::
You have no idea what a particular woman finds attractive in a particular situation, so plain and simple: Don't Be Stupid! No matter who you are or who you think you are, approach a woman at first calmly and curiously. Follow her non-verbal cues; watch her eyes and her body language. These vibes will provide you with useful ammunition when the verbal encounter occurs.
Some women like ass holes, some gentleman, some both. If you are at a bar (probably the worst place to meet a girl), do not immediately offer to buy her drink. Why? Because that's what every guy does and if you're trying to make her think "Wow this Johnny Bar-tab might be different than the rest," you need to neglect the norm.
You must act both mysterious and welcoming simultaneously. You don't want to bore her with your life story and at the same time you don't want to fully ignore an interesting conversation by trying to be overly suave and cocky.
Find the happy medium that fits your personality and your direction. Don't be upset if you're rejected or turned down. Maybe there is no common ground or chemistry. It's okay, there are plenty of fish in the sea or in your particular case: sluts in the bar; sorostitutes at the frat house; MILFs on the beach.
You must look at all situations positively and know that what you have to offer can and will be found interesting by many available women.
Make an impression, but make it a good one.
Good luck!
Doc
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