Conflict is inevitable among individuals in a relationship or during the strenuous stages of attempting one. Naturally, as the dominating counterpart in this duo, you may often feel compelled to constantly keep the ball in your court, for whatever reason. Do so, but only in a way that won't overwhelm her.
It's very difficult sometimes to bite your tongue and agree with her logic, or lack thereof. In the end, your relentlessness will have been pointless. You'll have a headache and a bigger problem -- We all know how woman like to blow miniscule bumps into out-of-proportion mountains.
Save yourself the issue. Rely on your good conscious often during times like these. Getting the last word in and giving her that last stab to try and get your point across has gone through one ear, torn through your weekend sexual agenda, and out the other.
Not only will taping your ego's mouth closed make your time together more peaceful, but it will teach you a thing or two about yourself and how you can apply these little tricks to other aspects of your relationship(s).
Be well,
Doc
Monday, March 14, 2011
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Don't Settle
Few things bother me, but as an individual offering advice of this particular nature, it irks me when people settle for a relationship for the sole purpose of being in one. This furthermore segues into the inevitable and more importantly premature "I Love You." Spare me, and who is infinitely more important, her. Until you meet a woman that treats and cares for you like your Mother does, and vice versa, there is a limited chance she loves you or you love her.
The point here gentleman is to WAIT. Stop catching minnows here and there. Let your line settle and reel in the big fish when she's opportune. Nonetheless, settling for a mate will overlap into other aspects of your life, in which you may settle for something less than what you're capable of achieving or deserving of.
You want the right kind of experience in earlier relationships in life so that when a long-term one comes along, YOU'RE READY -- A metaphor may be helpful:
Are you going to work jobs and internships irrelevant to your aspiring field of occupation? No. You're going to work similar jobs so that when the long-term offer comes along, your experience is useful, applicable, and relevant. The nature of relationships are very alike in this manner.
Think about it,
Doc
The point here gentleman is to WAIT. Stop catching minnows here and there. Let your line settle and reel in the big fish when she's opportune. Nonetheless, settling for a mate will overlap into other aspects of your life, in which you may settle for something less than what you're capable of achieving or deserving of.
You want the right kind of experience in earlier relationships in life so that when a long-term one comes along, YOU'RE READY -- A metaphor may be helpful:
Are you going to work jobs and internships irrelevant to your aspiring field of occupation? No. You're going to work similar jobs so that when the long-term offer comes along, your experience is useful, applicable, and relevant. The nature of relationships are very alike in this manner.
Think about it,
Doc
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